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You’re Not Broken for Wanting Love - Black Girl Bruja

You’re Not Broken for Wanting Love

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You’re Not Broken for Wanting Love

Are you exhausted from being told “you need to love yourself more” every time you express that you want a relationship?

Sis, I get it!

Yes, self-worth and boundaries matter. But your desire for real, soft, secure love? That’s not a symptom. That’s a sacred longing.

💌 Today’s Intention

No lectures. No shame. No “heal yourself first” guilt trips.

Today we are opening our hearts to the energy of receiving love — safely, joyfully, and spiritually aligned.

✨ 4 Rituals to Call In Aligned Love

🕯️ A Sweetness Spell to Attract Aligned Love

Use when: You’re ready for a faithful, emotionally safe partner.

  • Small mason jar
  • Honey or sugar
  • Red or pink candle
  • Paper, rose petals, cinnamon

Write your love intention on paper and fold it toward you 3 times. Place it in the jar with sweetener, petals, and cinnamon. Seal and burn a pink candle on top while praying Psalm 23 or 45. Repeat every Friday until you feel the shift.

🌊 A Sacred River Offering for Sweet, Soft Love

Use when: You want to call in beauty, sensuality, and gentle affection.

  • 5 spiral-peeled oranges
  • Honey (taste it first!), cinnamon, yellow flowers

Whisper your desires into the items and offer them near water or on your altar. Light a yellow candle and say: “Divine Love, flow to me as the river flows to the sea.”

🛁 A Moonlit Bath to Draw In Your Soulmate

Best time: Under the Full Moon or during Venus hour.

  • Rose petals, pink Himalayan salt
  • Jasmine/rose oil, cinnamon sticks, sugar

Soak while writing your vision of the relationship. Visualize it and chant: “I am ready to receive the love that sees me, the love that holds me, the love that honors me.” Let the water carry away your blocks.

🙏🏾 A Love Prayer + Letter to the Divine

Use when: You’re ready to align with spiritual partnership.

  • Write a letter to God or your spiritual team
  • Include Song of Solomon 8:7, 1 Corinthians 13, Psalm 37:4
  • White candle, olive oil, frankincense

Place your letter under the candle and pray: “I am made in Your image. I am worthy of covenant love. Send what is meant and let me recognize it with spiritual eyes.”

💖 The most powerful part of any spell is your faith and belief. Be emotionally and spiritually aligned with what you’re calling in. Manifestation flows when you do. 💫

🎨 Make a Love Vision Board

Create a board filled with:

  • Couples who feel safe, soft, and spiritually connected
  • Images of tenderness, laughter, and commitment
  • Affirmations like:
    • “I am seen, chosen, cherished.”
    • “Real love finds me now and I am ready.”
You can be healing and still desire love.
You can be whole and still want partnership.
You can manifest without shame.

You are not too much. You’re just waiting for the right one to hold all that you are.

About Post Author

leodaisysun

Hi, I’m Daisy — it’s so good to meet you! 🌻 I’ve arrived at this chapter in my life through a whole lot of trial, error, and yes… growth. My spiritual foundation was built on dual roots: I was raised in the African Methodist Episcopal Church, and I also had the unique blessing of attending a Spiritualist Church from a young age. I often say I got to experience the best of both worlds — and both traditions have deeply shaped the woman and the spiritual practitioner I am today. Now, I don’t call myself a psychic, but I’ve always had a sense — a knowing — that I was tuned into something deeper. I could feel things coming before they happened. Not lottery numbers (I wish!), but those vivid déjà vu moments and spiritual nudges that were just too clear to ignore. Over time, that connection began to deepen. During periods of stress or transition, I started meeting my ancestors in dreams — real conversations, real presence. My grandmother, my great-grandmother, my mom, even my Aunt CB — my Great Grandmother’s sister — have all shown up. Sometimes it’s just a warm visit. Other times, they come bearing wisdom from beyond. These women are my roots. My people. My Divine Team. After years of learning how to listen — really listen — to my guides and my higher self, I now stand grounded and confident in my ability to receive and interpret messages from the spirit world. Not just for myself, but for others, too.
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